Showing posts with label good luck. Show all posts
Showing posts with label good luck. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Luck & the Things That Attract It.


Luck is probably one of the most debated ideas in the history of humankind. One way or another, all of us subscribe to a notion of it, but we differ radically on the source and meaning of it. To some, good fortune is the blessing of a benevolent deity, to others the result of hard work and preparation, and to still others it is a mysterious "force" that must be courted.

If we want good things to happen, we try to repeat what we were doing the last time something good happened to us. And if something bad happens, we want to avoid doing whatever might cause a repeat of that difficulty. Sports figures are notorious for courting "luck" in bizarre ways.


This leads us to concoct all kinds of rituals and subscribe to all kinds of fetishes involving "lucky" items or symbols. Some --like the ones on the prayer bead bracelet pictured above-- we inherit from our families and the culture at large. Some we develop all on our own-- from our thinking, our experience, and our own spiritual orientation. LUCK is all about belief.

I am a big fan of butterflies. Every day I wear a small gold butterfly charm that was given to me by my mother as a symbol of hope. It's not flashy, but it is so steeped in meaning for me-- hope, rebirth, resurrection, change-- that it has almost religious significance. I use the butterfly motif in my house (prints on the walls and pillows and linens) and whenever I'm outside, I watch for butterflies and feel blessed and connected to something bigger than myself whenever I am near one.


Circles have special meaning to me. I frequently wear round hoop earrings and am drawn to art and furniture and fabrics that have circles in them. Circles embody the classic themes of inclusion and wholeness. . . but also bear more recent interpretations of community, natural geometry, the cycles of nature-- life cycles, rain cycles, seasonal cycles, and planetary cycles. Circles catch my eye and make me smile. . . I surround myself with them whenever I can.

(You know where hoop earrings came from? The old gypsy belief that circles trapped "luck" and that to wear metal hoops in your ears meant having good luck around at all times. Interesting, eh? And bangle bracelets. . . bring 'em on!)

A cool variation on the circle is the spiral. I have long pictured life's journey as a spiral. . . we travel through the same territory again and again, only on a little higher plane and with a different perspective. I look for spirals in art, in nature, and in everyday objects. . . you'd be surprised, they're everywhere! Each time I encounter one, I am reminded to make the most of the lessons I learn in life. . . the good and not so good.

Animals are a favorite, especially dogs. But I also have a fondness for cranes, herons, and egrets. . . partly because the name "Krahn" is German for "crane," and partly because I never saw them when I was growing up. I learned to appreciate them while living in Minnesota. They're sort of the family totem now. (Like eagles are for the Eagles?)

Pretty standard stuff.

But I also have a thing about ladders. They remind me of the story of Jacob's Ladder. . . and that when "wrestling with angels," you need to hold out for a blessing. . . and the blessing will come. It speaks to the value of persevering through trials and difficulty.

With bendable uprights, a ladder can be twisted into corkscrew shape that becomes the famous double helix of DNA. One of the great mysteries of the universe is embodied in that marvelous shape: we are connected to every other living thing on this planet by our chemistry. . . by the blueprint for life written in every microscopic cell of our bodies.


The double helix is a symbol of the unity that binds all of nature together in a way that crosses and crescents and mandalas and prayer wheels cannot do. I think churches, synagogues, mosques and temples should all adopt it as a symbol of the unity of creation.

Other precious images, totems, and "good luck" charms?

Oak trees. Lady bugs. Lilies. Polished stone hearts. The color red. Smiling animals. Bells of various kinds. Wind chimes. Celtic knots. Houseplants-- green, growing stuff inside my house-- (not in the refrigerator!) Palm fronds. Honey bees. Each reminds me of a lesson I've learned in life and in love.

What about you? What are your lucky charms? What symbols or shapes or items make you feel connected?

Do you have a motif or image that you look for in the fabrics, art works, and furniture that upholster your life?

Anything special around your neck or on your key chain?



One more thing: A video that just came out of the soldiers from Iraq and Afghanistan showing what totems and lucky pieces they carry with them into harm's way. Pretty moving. Here's a link. . .

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21134540/vp=32558997

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Would you?? Could you??

I have a friend who begs me every year to go with her to a tattoo shop and get inked up with a little body art. EVERY year~ And every year that I get a little older I am seriously torn between letting her get me drunk,( 'cause that's what it would take to drag my sorry self in) and get a little something done and just shaking my head and saying, "No way." So far, the "No way," has won.

On one hand, we only live once, right? On the other, an old joke comes to mind every time I think about getting a tattoo:
Wife says: "I've always wanted a rose bud tattooed above my left breast."
Husband says: "So why don't you get one?"
Wife says: "Because I don't want to watch it turn into a long stemmed rose as the years go by." (cue the laughter - or the groans)

So yeah, that's part of it. Another part is that it's kind of, well, naughty,
right? I mean, BAD girls get tattoos, don't they? And somewhere
deep inside, I'd like to think I'm a little bad - even if I am a gramma.

It's because I'm a gramma that I got to thinking about this again. I didn't comment on Lois's blog yesterday (sorry, Lois) because it was "Girl's day" out with my 8 year old granddaughter. Kayla and Gramma started our big day at the Mall where we both got pedicures and manicures and hit a two-fer sale on toe rings. Then we hit several stores and both had a blast buying her school clothes - they are SOOOO cute!!. but I digress. In one of the shops, this lovely Indian woman waited on us and her hands were covered with Henna Tattoos. I asked her about them and she told me that she was at a wedding this past weekend and all the women got the Henna tattoos to honor the bride and to bring her good luck. Of course, the bride was tattooed first and then everyone followed. What a lovely tradition. And the tattoos really were stunning.

Anyway, seeing them got me thinking about getting that tattoo again. So, I'm taking a pole: Who among you have a tattoo and do you ever regret having it done or does it still make you smile when you spot it? Who among you have ever thought about getting a tattoo? And if you want one and haven't done it, what's keeping you from it? If you don't want one, what do you think about someone else getting one?

Tuesday, August 21, 2007

Fortune telling. . . not what it used to be.


Have you gotten a fortune cookie lately?

If not, prepare for disappointment.

Judging by my experience as a woman devoted to take-out foods, the fortune-cookie people have gone soft on the future. No more "You will meet a tall, dark stranger with a bushel of money; be sure to befriend him." No more "Wealth is in your future" or "Good things are coming to you soon" or "Sing and rejoice, fortune is smiling on you." They're not about your fortunes at all!

Now it's all limp, squishy philosophy that could have come from a Self-improvement Step-a-day calendar: "You have a warm and generous nature," "The arts fill the soul with joy," "Integrity is more to be desired than gold," and "Business is full of uncomfortable decisions," and "You appreciate life."

Hey, if I wanted self-help advice, I'd talk to my relatives. I'm looking for the FUTURE here. And I'm getting nada. If I were of a more political and paranoid nature, I'd say we're being fed this stuff in order to demoralize us and prepare the way for a Chinese takeover of Nabisco. But since I'm NOT paranoid or delusional or any of the other stuff they say I should take medication for. . . I prefer to believe the cookie makers are just too cheap to employ good old fashioned psychics and telepaths the way they used to. And who suffers? We do. . . the almond cookie munching public.

What we need is a fortune cookie willing to tell it as it's going to be. We need Truth with a steady eye on the future: "Check your 401K; your broker just bought a new boat" and "Your mother-in-law will develop amnesia" and "You will slip and fall while on a tour of Trump Tower; contact a lawyer now" and "Future generations will write songs about you" and "That ugly painting you bought at the garage sale will turn out to be a Picasso" and "Your grandson will be President. Really. No kidding."

But I suppose truth does have it's down side. Who'd want to get a fortune cookie saying: "A dogpile will claim your favorite shoes" or "Your brother-in-law will never pay back the loan" or "Your car was assembled on a Monday; prepare for astronomical repair bills" or "Your editor will have a miracle pregnancy at age 50" or even "Congratulations. Your teenage daughter will soon present you with a grandchild." Talk about your mixed messages.

What do you think? Is it better to be forewarned and forearmed? Or to go forth into the future in blissful ignorance?

I confess, I have a fortune cookie fortune taped to the monitor in my office. I've gotten it at least four times and the fourth one I decided to take seriously and took it home to read and revere. It says: "Your past success will be overshadowed by your future success." I'm banking on that one, because it came from the old days when fortune cookies really foretold your fortunes.

What about you? Got a fortune cookie fortune you kept? In your wallet or tucked behind the driver's license in your billfold? Was it good luck? What did it say?

And what "fortune" would you LOVE to get and BELIEVE?