But back to the arranged marriage. Did you know that worldwide over 60% of marriages are arranged? That means over half the marriages in the world are put together in a means different than what we Americans consider traditional. It's astounding. And yet we are the ones with the highest divorce rate. Hmm...
The idea of such a union is something I love to ponder. I enjoy reading arranged marriage romances. In fact my April release, HER VAMPIRE HUSBAND is an arranged marriage between a werewolf and a vampire. (Hey! Werewolves and vampires are people, too. Erm...mostly.) It's a weird fantasy of mine, actually. I often wonder what it would have been like to have lived a few centuries earlier and to be delivered to my future husband's arms and married without even knowing him. Of course, he'd have to be tall, dark and brooding. I'd discover the tragedy he hides deep inside, and heal him with my newly-learned love for him. Sigh...
Er, sorry. Well, it must be a popular fantasy because those arranged marriage romances sell like hotcakes. And obviously it works in India. I like the idea of being matched to my intellectual and emotional equal. And the way they do it, the potential pair meets once (with much family around), and then if they wish, are allowed to go on a date. And usually within one or two meetings the blushing young couple decide if they wish to procede with a marriage. It seems rushed, but the relatives make darn sure the two are compatible before they shower them with marigolds and dance for three days.
But really? Do you think it does work? If you'd lived a different life, or even in a different time, do you think you'd be open to an arranged marriage? Is love so important? Because really, it isn't always lurve but rather infatuation. Anyone know someone in an arranged marriage? How's it workin' for them?
Michele
