tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post5981839051726184553..comments2024-03-17T02:20:03.772-05:00Comments on Riding With The Top Down: Kathleen Eaglehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13561028604927993773noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-4754160029263460062009-10-09T05:36:56.300-05:002009-10-09T05:36:56.300-05:00lois, thank you soooo much for quantifying this my...lois, thank you soooo much for quantifying this mystifying phenomenon for us! I LOVE this blog! And I can't wait to pull out these statistics in conversation!<br /><br />As Kathy says, I gotta be me!Betina Krahnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11379124690406269848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-55629986331299363342009-10-08T18:30:36.061-05:002009-10-08T18:30:36.061-05:00Hey, I love flirting! It's the national past ...Hey, I love flirting! It's the national past time. Fortunately hubby is indulgent and never worried. Especially since I didn't give him grief about all the women he works with who adore him.Debra Dixonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03992776098849029414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-14185308171083567622009-10-08T15:50:59.488-05:002009-10-08T15:50:59.488-05:00I have a big thing about tone of voice. My husband...I have a big thing about tone of voice. My husband still doesn't get it - it's not what he says, it's how he says it.catsladyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06375770995988927860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-60811145376861915262009-10-08T12:50:01.736-05:002009-10-08T12:50:01.736-05:00Kathy, the beauty of flirting is that the emotions...Kathy, the beauty of flirting is that the emotions are complicated, but the act is so simplistic. Act, react, watch it play out. But to me a lot of the simplest things are flirting. Like Hauf was talking about. A touch, a glance, a grin. Some people don't know they're flirting when they're flirting. Or, at least the way I think of flirting.<br />Men especially seem to delude themselves.lois greimanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05758677401591191607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-20676529946082886362009-10-08T12:29:46.970-05:002009-10-08T12:29:46.970-05:00Lois, you're right. I was just telling him ab...Lois, you're right. I was just telling him about today's post, and his end of the discussion proves that we're talking past each other. <br /><br />I'm thinking it runs even deeper than culture. You've got your alpha instincts, your biology, your ticking clock, your community needs, cultural standards, and then you have social mores trying to keep a lid on the whole thing. <br /><br />It's so interesting! And I do try to reflect some of this in my fiction. It's part of the character. Read a book a year or so ago called Self Storage involving an American woman--now, I don't know how to characterize the WASP woman in a PC way anymore--who gets involved in helping a Muslim woman who's very traditional. The American woman wonders about the Birka, the apparent restrictions, etc. The two can only communicate through a mutual (female) friend. The story makes you think about all the assumptions we make through our own social filter. I've spent a lifetime sort of living in two worlds and realizing that at the heart of it, we women are sisters. But culture plays such an interesting role in the way we behave.<br /><br />Am I complicating this way beyond the idea of simple flirtation? Probably. Ima be me.Kathleen Eaglehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13561028604927993773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-71974804391473809432009-10-08T12:15:19.954-05:002009-10-08T12:15:19.954-05:00Cincy, that's what I'm talking about. Harm...Cincy, that's what I'm talking about. Harmless fun. Makes you aware that you're still alive. I remember you telling us about Italy. Obviously they have fantastic taste there. :)lois greimanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05758677401591191607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-61179570892662239242009-10-08T12:04:16.874-05:002009-10-08T12:04:16.874-05:00Fun post, Lois. And some good harmless flirting i...Fun post, Lois. And some good harmless flirting is good for one's soul. They REALLY know how to flirt in Italy and Spain. The men are shameless and from my experience have a thing for short, pleasantly plump (ahem) middle aged women because I got about a dozen ego boosts every day. Everything from hand kissing to winks to a pinch on the ass (yes, I got pinched and I loved it!!). There's nothing chauvinistic about Italian and Spanish men when they flirt. They're in it for the fun and it's great!!Cindy Gerardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13311224531297908704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-17684195331582945892009-10-08T11:15:06.424-05:002009-10-08T11:15:06.424-05:00Kathy, don't let Clyde get away with that. I b...Kathy, don't let Clyde get away with that. I bet he'd flirt if he were catatonic.lois greimanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05758677401591191607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-20293245138845070372009-10-08T10:30:27.048-05:002009-10-08T10:30:27.048-05:00Pam, yeah, you probably don't want to be toooo...Pam, yeah, you probably don't want to be toooo flirty as a police officer huh?<br /><br />Except wait...I remember once at a party for Tami Hoag at Kathleen Eagle's house there was this cop...no wait...I guess he was a stripper. ;)lois greimanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05758677401591191607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-47176138973670590422009-10-08T10:08:48.823-05:002009-10-08T10:08:48.823-05:00Having just seen Bright Star this weekend I am rem...Having just seen Bright Star this weekend I am reminded how flirtation was once so subtle and the slightest brush of a coat sleeve against a skirt could show some sign of interest. A glance followed by a repressed smile. And those love letters. SIgh...Michele Haufhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12255612473985897103noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-34587372389686977392009-10-08T10:02:25.036-05:002009-10-08T10:02:25.036-05:00What a loaded topic--at least in my household. Cl...What a loaded topic--at least in my household. Clyde's culture is a bit different from mine. According to him, any of the behavior you describe on a woman's part is "cutsie pie." In the back of his mind it's a little unseemly. And it only holds for women, not men. <br /><br />Mama was a Southern Lady. Remember Scarlett? Southern ladies are Clyde's "cutsie pie." Not that he didn't adore her, but that cultural identity runs deep. We've had a discussion or two over the 39 years about whether I was flirting. But does he flash the smile in the eyes or the universally understood wink? You bet. What's the male version of "cutsie pie"? I spell M-A-N.<br /><br />Culture runs deep. It's fascinating, and important to remember nowadays.Kathleen Eaglehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13561028604927993773noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-50314800978350586412009-10-08T09:45:10.798-05:002009-10-08T09:45:10.798-05:00LOL - fun blog Lois. And, Betina, you crack me up...LOL - fun blog Lois. And, Betina, you crack me up. Don't listen to her, folks, she was born flirting!<br /><br />Terry, nope, don't remember the food scene from Tom Jones.<br /><br />Gawd, for the life of me I can't think of a single flirty scene. Kills me! I'll be back.Helen Brennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08680081195181747377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-71808143188358670412009-10-08T09:30:30.521-05:002009-10-08T09:30:30.521-05:00Great blog!!
I don't think I am ahy good at fl...Great blog!!<br />I don't think I am ahy good at flirting just like I think I look like a clown when I have make-up on. Guess that is because for 25 years as a police officer I couldn't wear makeup to work. We couldn't wear perfume but I always wore some on my off duty time.......go figure! LOL<br />Love & Hugs,<br />Pam Keener in PAPamela Keenerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14408322453014180737noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-54067385543391146582009-10-08T07:18:42.720-05:002009-10-08T07:18:42.720-05:00Pretty Woman really worked on a chemistry level di...Pretty Woman really worked on a chemistry level didn't it, Laurie?<br /><br />Betina, :) I've actually seen you flirt and there were no bugs involved. <br /><br />And I loved Wedding Crashers, but I don't admit that to just everyone. Just everyone on this blog. :)lois greimanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05758677401591191607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-89844267201042394442009-10-08T06:20:24.319-05:002009-10-08T06:20:24.319-05:00Anyone else remember the food scene from Tom Jones...Anyone else remember the food scene from Tom Jones?Terry Odellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11610682530545306687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-83642986083854689002009-10-08T05:47:11.511-05:002009-10-08T05:47:11.511-05:00And I almost forgot-- that line from "To Have...And I almost forgot-- that line from "To Have and Have Not" where Lauren Bacall says to Bogey:<br /><br />"You know how to whistle, don't you, Steve? You just put your lips together and... blow." <br /><br />Yeow. Scorchin' hot.Betina Krahnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11379124690406269848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-13979760772900399662009-10-08T05:41:24.130-05:002009-10-08T05:41:24.130-05:00Lois, I haven't flirted since 1972. Unless yo...Lois, I haven't flirted since 1972. Unless you count the time a bug flew into my eye at Disney and a guy thought I was winking at him. His wife was not amused.<br /><br />But on the movie screen, I occasionally see a winner. Like Owen Wilson in the Wedding Crashers. Even when he was portraying a cad, he was still adorable. That "I think we only use 10% of our hearts" line was so good. . . I'd have been dragging him into the closest hotel room myself!Betina Krahnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11379124690406269848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27662400.post-62639582927518219412009-10-08T05:04:18.031-05:002009-10-08T05:04:18.031-05:00Favorite movie scene-
Pretty Woman- When Richard s...Favorite movie scene-<br />Pretty Woman- When Richard sees Vivienne for the first time in the bar after her transformation. There's this intense chemistry, eye contact and beautiful Vivaldi music playing in the background.Laurie Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12533221100348874087noreply@blogger.com